#7 – Sticky Things Demon Angel Anger Whispers to You: “Who’s been messing with you? Don’t they know who’s got your back? Well, they’re about to find out! I will give you instructions to follow. They will not escape punishment. If you do as I tell you to do, they will experience my wrath through you. Be bold! Their demons will respect my power over you by honoring your actions towards their human. They will give you free reign over the human who has flustered and tormented you. Once this happens, I will have a legal charge over you. You will be in my debt until someone releases you.”
ARE YOU CAUGHT IN A TRAP?
WHAT ROLE DOES ANGER PLAY IN THE SITUATION YOU’RE CURIOUS ABOUT TODAY?
In the language of combat sports like mixed martial arts (MMA), the behaviors listed below are defined as TRANSITIONS. To improve his or her position in a fight, a fighter adjusts to force his opponent to move in a direction that will eventually end in a trap. In this case, the demon influencer weakens you by suggesting that other people have more power than you. All day, all night, whispering into your ear on repeat. His relentless repetition finally breaks your will and you’ve fallen into the trap…again.
DEFINITION: When you are angry and looking for revenge, you might make decisions that you later regret. Making deals with demons is a no-win situation. Your demon, working in concert with other demons, will get the revenge you seek, but at what cost? You’ve now made a legally binding agreement with your demon plus all the other demons involved. Where will this end? How will you get released from this voluntary bondage?
- I’m so furious I can’t see straight. I want him punished!
- Whenever I see her, my rage boils and I see red.
- I’m quietly angry and plotting my revenge step by step.
- My anger is so unrelenting that it’s all I can think about. Everything is on hold until I get satisfaction.
- This whole situation is irritating me. I can’t relax. I can’t get anything done.
- I feel cold anger towards you. I’m hiding my emotions so well that you don’t even know how angry I am. But just wait. The day is coming when you’re going to find out.
- Is anyone on my side? All of you who are against me will experience my wrath.
- Will I feel this angry for the rest of my life? The revenge happened, but I’m still upset and just as angry as before.
The Opposite of Wrath, Rage and Anger is Respect
In this case, when you feel respected, you feel balanced, connected, and protected. You know this time of anger will pass and that you’ll eventually calm down, heal and move on.
Each Demon Angel represents a set of behaviors. Their job is to influence you away from feeling determined, focused and safe. They disorganize your thinking (gaslighting) and shift you to feeling upset, disconnected and on the opposite side of someone.
What role does this demon’s encouragement to express your anger play in the situation you are analyzing?
Notice that respect is the exact opposite of how the demon is influencing the situation. Demon Angels do not respect you. Their primary focus is to distract and confuse you. Because you prefer to distract yourself and ignore your assignment, this demon has a very strong hold over you. You think you’re in control. But the demon knows just what to say to lead you in the wrong direction.
Questions:
- Regarding the situation you’re thinking about, what would change if you applied respect, either self-respect or respect towards others?
- What would have to change to improve your situation? Is something or someone supporting this behavior and allowing you or another person to get away with it? Or are you allowing yourself to be pushed around by a demon influencer?
- Pick one thing you can do to improve this situation.
- Share your insight in the comments below. What did you learn from this exercise?
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